I am here to give my advice and recommendations and pray that this will help somebody. As I said, I am not an expert, but I hope I can help at least one person find their way to a good relationship with themselves, God, their spouse, sibling or friend. Please, if I have helped in any way, let me know.
Relationships are the corner stone of your life. Some of you might disagree with me, but this is not an opinion, this is a fact. From your relationship with yourself & God to your family, friends and co-workers, your life is all about relationships. Your life can be determined by a good relationship or a bad relationship.
I am not a professional psychologist nor do I claim to be an expert on the human psyche. Honestly, I don't believe that you have to be a professional to have good advice. There are a lot of wonderful counselors and psychiatrists out there that help a great number of people.
I have given and received a lot of advice, some bad and some good. We all have our opinions on other people's relationships.
Listening to talk shows and listening to the confidence in the voices of hosts has started to disturb me. I understand that it is their job to be confident in the advice they give, but some are unwilling to admit their way is not the only way. Some give out the most absurd advice I've ever heard. Maybe they do it for ratings, maybe their just that stupid, I don't know, but I just cringe when I hear them.
I have spent a lot of time dealing with my own issues and listening to the issues of friends and family that come to me for advice. Over the years, I have experienced or witnessed so many situations that seem the same at the beginning but end so different. I can't tell you how many times I have heard "All I did was...." and "Well, this worked for me".
I realized that when those suggestions didn't work, I began to feel hopeless. It's easy to think that nothing will work if something that worked for everybody else didn't work for me. That's when you start feeling like there is no way it will get better. Like there is nothing left to do but give up.
I started this site to help people realize that there is always hope. There is always a way to make things better. That doesn't mean that all relationships can be saved, but too many are ending because of a lack of knowledge on how to fix them. On this site, I want to give you as many tools as I can to help you find a way that works for you. Saving your relationship with anyone begins with YOU.
For most of us, it is very hard not to express those opinions. I have learned that admitting that I do not have all the right answers is the key. The other very important key is realizing that no matter how the story sounds from one, there is ALWAYS another side to the story.
Learning how to deal with each person and situation in its own unique way may help us gain a little perspective. I am the first to admit that there are certain core values that will help you in every situation. Truth, compassion and an open mind are a few that could benefit every situation.
Please don't get me wrong. I am all for counselors, psychologists, psychiatrists, and any other mental health specialists. I definitely encourage individuals and couples to find a great counselor. They can help you in so many ways.
The above pictures only reresent talk shows on relationship advice.
They are not specifically related to bad or good advice.
I will be updating this website on a weekly basis. Please check back for new information.
Do you know how to have a good relationship? Are you stuck in a bad relationship? Do you want the tools on how to turn a bad relationship into a good relationship? Well I am here to help.
However, just because one particular counselor helps one person, does not make them the perfect counselor for another. You have to find the one that is right for YOU.
There are no guarantees on relationships. There is not a standard way to deal with any situation. Everybody in this world is different and every relationship is different.
However, there are also many that should find a new profession. A title does not make you an expert on all human emotion.